A Sense of Humour will make your Life a Lot More Enjoyable

‘If I had no sense of humour, I would long ago have committed suicide.’ These are the words of Mahatma Gandhi, an ordinary man who made his way through immense troubles, and finally showed us the power of toleration and unruffled sense of humour. This is more or less our sixth sense. People endowed with a sense of humour are able to laugh through life, making it pleasant for themselves, and others around them. Jovial people are extremely popular, and are the cynosure at parties and social get-togethers, adding spice to an otherwise dull party. Their practical jokes cracked humouredly, are never taken personally, and are known to have a good effect on the most straight and sober men. Do not read the next paragraph

You can’t resist reading, isn’t it??? Life is basically what you make of it. You can either go about it, complaining and cursing your fate, or enjoy its ups and downs, taking it in your stride. Nevertheless, we find many people having a pessimistic outlook to life. Such people have developed an attitude of always looking at the darker aspects of life. They find something to brood or grieve over, in the happiest of situations. Hopefully, I am not one of them. On the other hand, we have optimistic people, endowed with a sense of humour. They find something good and humorous, even in the worst of situations, being better able to deal with them. They are thus very effective in lifting their own, as well as the spirits of others around them. This exceptional quality also makes them puncture the vanity of the rich and powerful, who think very highly of themselves. Many successful great men therefore cultivate the friendship of men with a good sense of humour, so as to bring them down to earth, and face to face with reality, in a way that is practical yet unoffending.

Sense Of Humour is the best source of Laughter

From the pages of History

We had the Vidushak in the courts of kings and emperors, who made fun of themselves and the king. They highlighted the common man woes in an appropriate manner, for better appreciation by the royalty. We have heard of many practical jokes of Birbal, a courtier in the court of Emperor Akbar, to bring home a logical point, which he could not have dared to do plainly. He very subtly made the mighty emperor see logic in an unfair decision that had been awarded to a subject. There are however no kings and emperors today, being replaced by ministers, and the prime ministers. The official vidushaks, have in turn been replaced by newspaper cartoonists and journalists. The cartoonist comes up with amusing cartoons, and the journalist with humorous articles, that excite laughter, at the irrational and selfish acts of those in power. They are able to deliver a subtle, yet effective message to the authorities, through their caricature, making them bow to public opinion, that they effectively generate. We had in the recent past, a cartoon of a chief minister charge sheet for corruption, unwilling to step down, and another politician convicted of crime, being sworn in as the chief minister of a state. They had the desired effect, with better sense prevailing on the parties concerned. Thus by humorously projecting the wayward behaviour of powerful politician in cartoons, they make them see reason, and honour public opinion.

Even in our daily lives, humour helps us to maintain our mental balance, by making us unwind, thereby easing the tensions of life. It makes life more pleasing and relaxed. You must therefore cultivate a good sense of humour, by being able to laugh at ourselves, only then can you laugh at the expense of others. Try to find the minimal amount of comic aspects in every task you do. Make fun of your companions and siblings, but in a humorous and nice manner. Last and the most important, make fun of yourself! No, I am not mad yet. This is one of the most ignored but important seed for building an effective sense of humour. If you want to live your life to the fullest, then never be afraid to laugh at yourself. If you take everything too seriously, especially yourself, you’ll wind up fearing every new step you take. You grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself and your circumstances! Laughing at yourself doesn’t means acting like a crazy stupid person, it is simply one’s understanding of what others think about them. You will find yourself in a perplexing and dynamic situation after you accord with others’ jokes about you.

‘Laughter is the best medicine’ is a well-known adage. This is also a scientifically acknowledged fact for humour excites laughter. Humour therefore not only make our life more pleasing and worth living, but is also necessary for staying healthy. Perhaps, approaching our daily life’s endeavours with a sense of humour has a lot to do in triggering our  endorphins. This makes us feel mentally happier or stable. Whether this is true or not, no one would refute the fact that having a sense of humour at least makes you a more likeable person. Consequently, yielding better results in our every day interaction with other people, such as loved ones, co-workers or a potential employer.

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27 Comments Add yours

  1. This is so true. I truly believe this thing. I mean, what’s the use of staying alive without smiling. Hadn’t Charlie Chaplin said ?

    “A day without laughter is a day wasted”

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    1. Exactly!! I believe laughter not only gives pleasure but effectively keeps our anger and tension well under control. Thanks for reading, appreciating and commenting. 🙂

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      1. It a absolutely cool ! I am new to this site. I joined around few hours ago. I am just trying to keep up. Haha

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      2. That’s great!! Hope you enjoy blogging…

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  2. Mermaid Keiayra says:

    If I didnt have humor I would also be dead. Seriously great read. People need to learn to laugh, at the world.. And at themselves. It’s healthy.

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    1. Well said! Thanks for expressing your appreciation.

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  3. Kimberly says:

    Wonderful post, and very true. It can be hard to not look at everything life throws at you with disdain, but if you can try to look at the positive you will be a much happier and fullfilled person

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  4. Aryan Saikia says:

    It’s true.. Great post.. loved it..

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  5. Fatima says:

    That’s so true! Even slight humour can make things lively!

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  6. Klaudia says:

    Aw , thanks for this great write up ! You are hitting the nail … as my main topic is HAPPINESS in life . I really enjoyed reading , will most certainly back for more . You might like mine aswell , as we are ‘on the same track’ , feel free to have a look @ http://www.klaudiascorner.net

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    1. Glad you liked the topic! I definitely wish to explore blogs similar to mine, and yours is one of them.

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  7. Ana De Jesus says:

    It is true, to me laughter is the best medicine because without laughter we would have nothing and be devoid of all feeling. A well written post x

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  8. lynnblackmar says:

    It’s easy for me to take everything so seriously, and it’s really taxing emotionally and physically. This is a great reminder!

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    1. It is, without a doubt. Btw, thanks for commenting!

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  9. Elena Toma says:

    Laughing gives hope and it always has a positive healthy vibration, while the sense of humor helps us cope with the hard times. Everything gets better when we use a bit of humor and a bit of laugh, even the hardest things. Great post!

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    1. And I’ve experienced the same several times in my life. Thanks for visiting!

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  10. kikicarlson says:

    What an absolutely true post. I have found when I laugh more I enjoy more. Common sense!

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    1. That’s correct. Thanks for taking your time to comment on the post!

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  11. Johanna says:

    Laughter is a necessity in life, I wouldn’t made it through so many things without it. I really enjoyed this post, the topic is very relevant for me.

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    1. I’m so pleased you liked the post. Thanks for commenting!

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  12. Joanna says:

    Very inspiring post, it’s true that people with the sense of humor live longer, haha. It’s always better to make fun of a situation than just sit and cry.

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    1. It seems like you understand the essence of humour. Thanks for reading and commenting!!

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  13. Idaintyit says:

    I loved this post, it is so true! I suffered very badly with depression after having my son and found it difficult to smile let alone laugh but as I started to get a bit better I found that just having a laugh at something silly could just lift my mood and when I was having a bad day I felt so alone because no wants to be around someone who is miserable

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    1. That’s right. People think that there’s nothing enjoyable in talking to miserable beings. Thanks for visiting!

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  14. This is a Great post and also so true!

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  15. Georgianna says:

    A sense of humor is so important, thanks for sharing this and reminding people!

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    1. Thanks for visiting! 🙂

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